Are you interested in Sex Coaching?
Following are the steps to find out if we are a match to work together: 
1. Please, contact me at isa@xtasia.info
2. I will return your mail with specific questions to get an idea of what you are looking for
3. We will set up a 20 minute phone appointment to interview each other. Or I will try to refer you to other sources.
Once we decide we wish to work together, you can choose from several options:
-
Phone Coaching
- In-Person Coaching
- A combination of phone and in-person coaching
- Couples coaching
- One Time Tantra Session (In-person only)
Phone
Coaching
I ask you to schedule the first
block of 6 or 8 sessions, 3 or 4 times a month
for 2 months.
Committing to a minimum number of sessions allows you to
taste the possibilities of coaching, whether it is for making
change in your sex-life, or affirming the growth you have
already begun.
I'll send you a Welcome-packet, including our contract,
logistical information and questions which invite you to
reflect on your relationship with sex and intimacy. This
information helps us throughout the coaching period.
The very first session lasts one hour and serves to exchange information
on how we work most effectively, tailored to your needs
and personality.
Each session thereafter is 45 minutes.
In-Person
coaching
In-Person
coaching allows experiences to be shared which are more
difficult to communicate verbally.
. We
can convey the different qualities of touch, or techniques
of breathing, or the experience of energy flowing back and
forth and what it does.
. Monitoring your body language on-sight
can be of great value in many cases. For example:
... Sometimes we build up habits which inhibit the growth
of the sexual experience. For example, many of us tighten
the muscles of legs and belly to "help squeeze out"
an orgasm. Eventually this habit can work against us, as
it cuts off the flow of blood and energy which are necessary
to accumulate enough orgasmic power.
... The "simple" concepts of relaxation and receiving
threaten some people, rather than comfort them. Yet, to
grow into sexual wholeness, these important skills can be
practiced.
. Exploration in a safe, professional environment
can help us move beyond our restrictions.
... In spite of the gained sexual freedom in the last decades,
many women complain to not enjoy sex and at least 26% do
not experience orgasms.
... And what about the G-spot and the P-spot (prostate gland)?
Where are they located? How do they feel? What is their
gift?
These are some of the many examples of possible issues that
arise in person-to-person sessions.
A
combination of phone and in-person coaching
Sex-coaching can happen through a combination of phone-sessions
and in-person sessions.
Couples
Coaching
Sometimes couples run into the limit of their ability to
meet sexually, in a way that satisfies both partners. A
thousand different reasons may cause this impasse. Sometimes
a sex coach can help to find alternative ways of relating
and experimenting. Usually I'll have sessions with individual
partners, until both are clear about their wishes and can
talk freely to one another about how to achieve those
One Time Tantra Session
Besides the ongoing coaching, I'm offering one time sessions to facilitate your journey into sexual wholeness and wellbeing. Each session is tailored to your unique need and desire. The options are:
1. Tantric Touch
pleasure and pamper
2. Healing through Tantra
healing pleasure
3. Tantric Touch and Tools
learning Tantric Touch and Tools
Please, go to: Xtasia - Groups and Private Sessions for more information.
Location
My practice is located in Taos, New Mexico, a gorgeous, magical place which attracts visitors for many reasons. Visit www.libidocompass.com for more information on Taos (soon to be installed).
If you combine sex coaching with a visit of the area, you may want to schedule several sessions in consecutive days, up to two a day.