Are you interested in Sex Coaching?

Following are the steps to find out if we are a match to work together:

1. Please, contact me at isa@xtasia.info

2. I will return your mail with specific questions to get an idea of what you are looking for

3. We will set up a 20 minute phone appointment to interview each other. Or I will try to refer you to other sources.

Once we decide we wish to work together, you can choose from several options:

- Phone Coaching

- In-Person Coaching
- A combination of phone and in-person coaching
- Couples coaching

- One Time Tantra Session (In-person only)

 

Phone Coaching

I ask you to schedule the first block of 6 or 8 sessions, 3 or 4 times a month for 2 months.
Committing to a minimum number of sessions allows you to taste the possibilities of coaching, whether it is for making change in your sex-life, or affirming the growth you have already begun.
I'll send you a Welcome-packet, including our contract, logistical information and questions which invite you to reflect on your relationship with sex and intimacy. This information helps us throughout the coaching period.

The very first session lasts one hour and serves to exchange information on how we work most effectively, tailored to your needs and personality.
 Each session thereafter is 45 minutes.

In-Person coaching
In-Person coaching allows experiences to be shared which are more difficult to communicate verbally.
. We can convey the different qualities of touch, or techniques of breathing, or the experience of energy flowing back and forth and what it does.
. Monitoring your body language on-sight can be of great value in many cases. For example:
... Sometimes we build up habits which inhibit the growth of the sexual experience. For example, many of us tighten the muscles of legs and belly to "help squeeze out" an orgasm. Eventually this habit can work against us, as it cuts off the flow of blood and energy which are necessary to accumulate enough orgasmic power.
... The "simple" concepts of relaxation and receiving threaten some people, rather than comfort them. Yet, to grow into sexual wholeness, these important skills can be practiced.
. Exploration in a safe, professional environment can help us move beyond our restrictions.
... In spite of the gained sexual freedom in the last decades, many women complain to not enjoy sex and at least 26% do not experience orgasms.
... And what about the G-spot and the P-spot (prostate gland)? Where are they located? How do they feel? What is their gift?
These are some of the many examples of possible issues that arise in person-to-person sessions.

A combination of phone and in-person coaching
Sex-coaching can happen through a combination of phone-sessions and in-person sessions.

Couples Coaching
Sometimes couples run into the limit of their ability to meet sexually, in a way that satisfies both partners. A thousand different reasons may cause this impasse. Sometimes a sex coach can help to find alternative ways of relating and experimenting. Usually I'll have sessions with individual partners, until both are clear about their wishes and can talk freely to one another about how to achieve those

One Time Tantra Session
Besides the ongoing coaching, I'm offering one time sessions to facilitate your journey into sexual wholeness and wellbeing. Each session is tailored to your unique need and desire. The options are:
1. Tantric Touch
    pleasure and pamper
2. Healing through Tantra
    healing pleasure
3. Tantric Touch and Tools
    learning Tantric Touch and Tools

Please, go to: Xtasia - Groups and Private Sessions for more information.

Location

My practice is located in Taos, New Mexico, a gorgeous, magical place which attracts visitors for many reasons. Visit www.libidocompass.com for more information on Taos (soon to be installed).

If you combine sex coaching with a visit of the area, you may want to schedule several sessions in consecutive days, up to two a day.